Regardless of what people say, no woman is ever completely satisfied with her body, which is understandable considering the fact there is no such thing as perfection, but still, as the gentle sex, we are very close to it. Women who are not victims of imposing beauty trends truly send special vibration in spite of their body figure. It has to do with the mental attitude that is not easy to accomplish. It is easy to say “be confident and you’ll be attractive”, but it takes more than words to implement something into an action.
The truth is confident woman is beautiful because beauty without charm is like a hook without a bait. Additionally, charm and sensuality are things that make us genuinely beautiful, so if this package happen to contain a few pounds more, let it be.
Be proud at your curves, ignore the launched runaway models (one can at least hang a coat on a hanger, right?) or the ones they called themselves stars with curves like Beyonce. Here I refer to true women curves, and not that perfectly shaped stars that have the whole team of professionals making sure not one eyelash would fall down. With years, body changes and we simply need to accept that, especially if you have given birth. Speaking of birth, women often find hard to accept these recent changes, particularly when media constantly put forward “super mums” who in just a few weeks after birth look perfect. Don’t mind Angelina Jolie or Heidi Klum, their job is to look good, and they have nannies, personal trainers and nutritionists who work hard to achieve that look… Women after giving birth are especially sensitive and it is utterly useless to send such a wrong message about the “perfect” look. Here is my personal experience. A month after I gave birth, I came to a bank when a bank watchmen came to me and said I have the advantage over other clients because he thought I was pregnant! I don’t even need to mention how all my ships have sailed away that afternoon, but still, I didn’t wait in line.
How to get confident? Hmm.. We simply need to start to behave that way until we become confident.
Firstly, we should always walk with an attitude, but not with some uncertainty and clumsiness; make elegant lady steps that visually elongate your body. Have you ever noticed how many times have you looked at some female person just because she had that elegant walk (and by that I don’t mean you should “stick nose up in the air”). Subtle movements and speech, elegant gestures, kind facial expression, careful choice of clothes, nurtured body, strong character, are just some of the features modern confident woman possesses. Even one proverb says – “beauty is power; a smile is its sword”.
A. Vukušić